Tips on How to Kiss a Girl

By Article Guy On February 18, 2010 Under Love and Romance

Do you know that feeling when you are out on a date with a girl and instantly the mood changes and you know you need to take things in a more physical direction, but you just couldn’t find the courage to push through your nervousness?

This is a very common issue that most men will have to work through sooner or later.  Personally, I used to be pretty good at getting dates, but I would blow it again and again because I didn’t know how to kiss a woman.

For starters, if you can convince a woman to go out on dates with you and you think she may even like you as more than friends, then you are much farther along than a good deal of guys.  All you need to do is learn to make things more intimate.

At the bottom of it all, the situation is all in your head. You might be wondering “How do I know for certain if she is attracted to me?” or “What if she rejects me?”.

All of this is simply a waste of time.

There are no proven methods to know if a girl is in to you.

Instead move fast to determine if she is the sort of woman you want to spend time with or not.

So you need to kiss her at a good moment like at the end of a date. With a little practice, you can just feel when it is time to kiss her. Everything will seem heavy and you will know it is time.

As you go in to kiss her, she will respond in one of two ways.

One, you two will start to make out and have all sorts of exhilarating fun.

Or second, she rejects you. If you get this reaction, be relieved!  This girl just proved to you that she is not worth your time and now you can move on to other women.

Just brush it off with something like, “Don’t blame a guy for trying now.” or “Hey, just think of it as a compliment. “  Wrap up the date as quickly as you can. Don’t make things weird, just act like the two of you are friends.

From there, it’s in her hands. If she comes to the conclusion she made an error, it is up to her to call you. But remember to let her make the next move. You will be spending time with women who do like you romantically.

Let me share a personal story of how to kiss a woman.

Last August, I had a date with a woman I really wanted to see. Every once in a while, you meet a woman that just makes you nervous with excitement at the thought of hooking up with her. This was one of those women.

I took her out to lunch at one of my favorite places in the city. She invited me back to her condo afterward to show me some art she was working on. We relaxed on her couch and talked.

Then things just fell silent.

It was certainly time to kiss her. I didn’t know what would happen, but I acted on my insticts anyway. I let it to get a little awkward for the heck of it, then I said, “I just really want to kiss you now. “  Then I leaned in and kissed her.

At first there was some hesitation, but she quickly decided to enjoy the moment. Don’t shy away if you get some intial resistance. She will make it very plain if she doesn’t want you to kiss her. But don’t be surprised if you encounter a little “turbulance”.

Also be a man and stay in control of the make out session. A lot of girls will try to kiss you in their own way in the beginning. Be firm and direct with your kissing and she will relax and let you take the lead.

Afterward I leaned back and said “I’ve wanted to do that for a really long time. “  That lit her up and we went on to have a lot of fun.

So that is my advice on how to kiss a woman. Yes, it can be hard to put it all on the line and risk being shot down, but that’s part of the game.

If you liked this article, please also check out How to Kiss a Girl, How to Flirt with Women, and Turning On Women